Are there girls who cry or open up about deep things? Reading this made me realize I’ve only ever had very superficial relationships.
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It’s really possible to become that close, huh? Though it is more intimate than using escort services.
Is there something about me that makes them unable to rely on me? (^_^;)? So the difference between a papa they can talk to and one they can’t is whether he feels like a boyfriend or not, right?
What kind of person can they open up to?
I’d like to at least become a blue stranger.
It feels more like romance that way, doesn’t it?
The other day, I was having dinner with a papa (a male supporter) I’d only recently met. The conversation somehow went a little deeper than I intended, and as I talked about something from my past, I got a bit teary—and he saw me.
I thought he might be put off, but we’ve continued seeing each other and have grown quite close.
He seems calm, kind, and like someone who would be understanding.
Marika
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Off the top of my head, I can think of three or four women like that. I’m still in some kind of ongoing relationship with each of them.
One of the women I’m currently seeing is like that too. Even if we ended our adult relationship (intimate), I think we’d probably stay friends.
I’m not really a papa (a male supporter). I tend to aim for a position as a friend instead. Even if the adult relationship (intimate) ends, I stay in the role of a friend.
A lot of attractive women don’t have many male friends. Even if they make a male friend, he often ends up confessing his feelings to them.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
I’m basically the type who likes to be pampered, so I once burst into tears while on the phone with one of my papas (a male supporters). (Oops)
He must have been surprised Σ(ﾟдﾟ；)
I do have deep conversations, but I don’t say anything to people I only have a superficial relationship with. They’d just be put off.
I think you should do whatever feels right for you. If you push yourself too hard, it can take a toll on your mental health, so please be careful.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Since it’s her private business, it’s better not to pry if you can avoid it.
Even when women seem friendly, they usually maintain a certain level of caution. Once that starts to fade, and if you approach the conversation with empathy, she may open up.
By the way, at an adult entertainment venue, I once had a woman I’d requested several times start crying and tell me all sorts of things while we were having a drink together after our session.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Tears and deeply personal conversations don’t come up that often, and I think there will be times during a conversation when you find yourself thinking, “Oh, I see…”
I believe the most important thing is to genuinely engage with women on a regular basis. If you bring up a variety of topics, deeper conversations may naturally come up too.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
Whether it’s been that way up to now or outside the club, isn’t that just how it is?
If not, it’s safest not to get your hopes up and to treat it as a transactional relationship.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I have deeper conversations because I want my papas to like me, but I think many papas prefer to keep a certain distance, so I try to gauge that before opening up.
Even if he isn’t a boyfriend-type papa, I’ll still talk to him if I feel he’s a trustworthy adult. I’m very grateful to the papas who have listened to me and given me advice based on their wealth of life experience. Though they may think I’m the worst for venting at them.
That said, women who strongly view it as a transactional relationship probably don’t want anything too deep. I hope you meet someone who isn’t like that.
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