Some female members leave immediately after the intimate encounter. Some even set an alarm and hurry off. Do they really dislike it that much?

I’m columnist Fuu. I’m guessing your question is based on having planned the timing so you could send her home after four hours? Since you hadn’t considered the timing, the alarms came across to me as the woman making a passive-aggressive point. If you’re trying to leave early, there probably won’t be a continuation. But if it’s already been more than four hours, this is actually a situation where you should apologize for keeping her so late. I feel that by repeatedly showing that kind of consideration, you can build trust and eventually enjoy more meaningful time together within those four hours—where she feels comfortable cuddling up beside you with her head on your arm, and so on.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Isn’t the intimate part going on a bit too long? Reaching climax, wrapping things up, and getting home are all things you should work out together.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. The other day, since it was almost the last train, I set a timer on my phone. I told her, “When the timer goes off, we’ll stop—even if we’re in the middle of things.” I finished two minutes before the timer went off. Perfect time management, if I do say so myself. lol That said, I’m generally the type who likes to enjoy the afterglow, so women like that get told, “Thanks for filling in,” and taken out of the game.

I’m Dai, a male member. The woman I’m seeing isn’t like that. Quite simply, she probably just doesn’t want to spend more time with you than necessary. Whether you end things is up to you, but the other women may also be putting up with you just to keep seeing you. Start by taking an honest look at your own behavior.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. The wording has changed, but is this part of the “break up with women like this” campaign we’ve been seeing over the past few days? Since posts get published if they’re formatted as questions, is someone seeking attention posting repeatedly again? It’s quite a nuisance. I wish people would stop spreading such strange ideas. > So you can’t have a long-term relationship with the person described above, right? Why not? If she’s your type, you enjoy talking with her, and you’re compatible when it comes to intimacy, wouldn’t you stay with her for a long time? How you choose to spend your time is up to you. There’s nothing wrong with leaving right away, is there? Besides, if you already know she’ll leave immediately afterward, then you can simply enjoy talking before things begin. My guess is that she may believe men often enter a reflective mood afterward, and that they should be left alone to do so in peace. Of course, a woman who can continue enjoying conversation and spending time together afterward is preferable to one who leaves right away. But, but still— When all is said and done, if you really like a woman, anything goes. You somehow end up forgiving her for everything. I think that’s probably the general tendency. Maybe the questioner has such strange ideas because they’re intimate with women without caring who they are, as long as anyone will do.

I’m Kazu, a male member. She may have had something she wanted or needed to do. For example, she might have needed to run a load of laundry or had made up her mind to finally go to the gym that day. Even if a woman leaves quickly, I think it’s possible to have a long-term arrangement with her if everything else about her is good.