Don’t you think testing for STIs together could be both sexy and reassuring? I mean the kind you can do at home. Would women feel uncomfortable if it were suggested? Would they rather do it themselves? Of course, I’d cover the cost, since she’s been accepting it without protection.

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Do you get turned on by unusual things, questioner? If someone has ever had syphilis, even once, the test results won’t come back in just one day. There are privacy concerns too, so when you say you’d buy test kits and test each other, you mean testing your partner yourself, right? For women, the test involves inserting a swab into the vagina, so I think it would be better to have it done at a hospital. Also, since a needle is involved, the amount of pressure matters. If it hurts, it’s subtly unpleasant.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I wouldn’t call it erotic, but it can certainly provide peace of mind. You should ask your partner. Test results are highly private, so if it were me, I’d want to do it myself and wouldn’t suggest that a woman do it. If I were to make a suggestion, it would only be to offer to cover the cost. Also, have you ever been tested yourself? Depending on the test, samples may need to be collected first thing in the morning or under other specific conditions. Are you prepared to go that far? Female anatomy is more complex than male anatomy, so I don’t think sample collection is something an amateur should handle.