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Oct 5, 2021 12:26
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I don’t think I’m particularly loose, but...
Even when I try to tighten up as much as possible, it feels kind of airy and loose on my end. Does he also feel that I’m loose? He says it feels good, but honestly, what does it feel like from a man’s perspective?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If he tells you it feels good and it doesn’t take him an unusually long time to finish, I think he’s satisfied.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If she says it feels good and she’s also reaching orgasm, I don’t think there’s a problem.
Personally, I’d feel bad if the woman didn’t enjoy herself.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Condoms come in standard sizes, so men with unusually large or small penises probably know their own size. I don’t think that man believes you’re too loose.
Mine is within the average range, so I can’t say exactly how he feels. He probably feels the same way with other women and simply assumes that this is what sex is supposed to feel like for him.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Big and small are relative.
If you use a horse as the standard, all humans would seem tiny by comparison.
So, regarding:
> “He says it feels good, but honestly, what does it feel like from a man’s perspective?”
If he’s telling you it feels good, I don’t think you need to worry. At the very least, if he’s able to finish, you should be fine.
It could become more complicated if he can’t finish, but the real issue would be if you weren’t satisfied.
If you’re considerate of your partner’s feelings, though, I feel like that should be okay too.