I’m the person who asked the question at https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/8946. Sorry to follow up.

Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering your question as well. > By the way, his profile was private, so I wasn’t able to view it beforehand. In that case, it’s possible to show the profile only to the person who made the offer. You can ask the staff, “I’d like to see his profile—could you show it to me?” In most cases, they’ll let you view the profile privately, visible only to the person who received the offer. Whether you want to accept an offer from a man who won’t even allow that is entirely up to you. But if you think you may receive other offers, I think it’s perfectly fine to turn it down. > How often do you actually come across disappointing people? Among men who won’t make their profile available even to the person they’re making an offer to, I feel that more than half are likely to be people you’ll regret meeting. Of course, there are disappointing people even among those with public profiles, so you can’t let your guard down. But you only need to stop seeing them after the first meeting, so just erase them from your memory. There are plenty of good men, too.

I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. I’ve set my profile to hidden from everyone because I’ve been lying and saying things like, “Well, the club’s been pretty quiet, so I’m taking a break for now.” However, I’ve set it so that people I make offers to can still view it. I’m not sure whether I should hide it from people I make offers to as well. Has anyone ever had an offer turned down because of that?

I’m Aya, a female member. It is strange to not want your own identity exposed while prying into all sorts of things about the other person’s privacy. I suppose it would be different if you were willing to reveal your own identity, but… the reason for keeping it private is, of course, to prevent being identified. In my case, I’d say I’ve encountered disappointing people about 10% of the time. One person claimed they didn’t know about the system of giving transportation money. They were fun to talk to, but it was still disappointing. Other than that, everyone was basically a gentleman.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I think men who keep their profiles private are either worried about being recognized or lack confidence in themselves. Or perhaps they simply don’t feel the need to show their profiles to women. Each woman has a different rate of encountering people to avoid. Some women say 80% of the men they meet are disappointing, while others say it’s less than 10%. I think it depends on the type of men making offers, your luck of the draw, and also the woman’s own words, behavior, and open-mindedness.