Tips Oct 3, 2021 10:51

I’m the one who asked about having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the first time.

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Thank you all for answering my previous question. What I wanted to ask was whether it’s okay to say, “I’d like you to use a condom,” the next time we’re intimate. Or, if saying it right before things happen would disappoint him, I’m wondering whether I should bring it up the next time we go out for a meal and say, “I’ve been worried that I might be pregnant since then.” Sorry my question was unclear, and thank you all for answering.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too. If you agreed to go without a condom the first time, he may assume it’s okay next time as well. So I think you should tell him that you want him to use a condom. As for timing, it’s better to tell him beforehand rather than right before, so I’d recommend bringing it up in advance.
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I’m Dai, a male member. If you bring it up right before things get intimate, it can be a real turn-off, so I think it’s better to discuss it beforehand.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡ Rather than bringing it up at that moment, it’s better to do it while you’re watching TV or something. Apparently, people tend to feel a little more relaxed after eating, so try asking after a meal. If he says things like, “What?” or “But it feels good,” just drop him. A much more wonderful, handsome guy is waiting for such a lovely questioner. I hope you’re able to put it into words smoothly. I’m rooting for you!
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I see! I think it’s not only okay to tell him—you should tell him. His reaction may hurt you, but I believe that’s part of life too.
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I’m in Seattle. I think it’s best to let them know ahead of time, rather than right before. Try persuading them with kind words.
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