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Sep 25, 2021 21:55
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Why do men want to hide the fact that they’re members of a dating club?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Whenever someone asks my papa, “Where did you meet such a beautiful, respectable woman?” he jokes, “We met through work! I’ve got a network of girls I know during the day too, you know. It’s not all about nightlife!!”
I think that’s because he’s often out drinking in Roppongi or Ginza, but he definitely doesn’t give off any dating-club vibes. To most people, a dating club is just like, “What’s that?” They wouldn’t understand even if you told them. Telling the whole truth isn’t always the right thing to do.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Even the friendly staff at my regular darts bar—guys in their early twenties I occasionally play darts with—don’t pry and ask, “You’ve got a different girl with you every time, huh?” lol
So basically, if someone from the establishment asks, it’s because the man wants them to ask. In other words, he’s a pathetic, vain creep. He wants to show off to someone, but he’s embarrassed to be found out for using a dating club. That makes him the biggest cowardly creep of them all.
It’s not that he wants to hide using a dating club because he’s ashamed of it. In this case, he’s hiding it because he wants to show off.
I mean, you can figure that out just from the vibe, can’t you? lol
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I can think of several possible reasons, but I’ll refrain from listing them since many people might find them unpleasant.