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Sep 25, 2021 19:58
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After he replied, “I’m still seriously thinking about whether I can meet the terms I mentioned before,” he later messaged me on LINE saying, “I’d like to talk on the phone today.”
Since he specifically wanted to talk by phone, I assumed it might be about whether he could meet my terms, so I agreed. But we ended up spending about 15 minutes making small talk. (He did about 90% of the talking.)
I suppose I’m also partly to blame for not bringing up the terms myself, even though I was hesitant. But does this mean there’s probably little chance he’ll agree to what I’m looking for?
Honestly, I feel like if I bring it up again, he’ll just say he’s “still thinking about it” and try to brush me off.
4 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Are you the kind of woman who has trouble making up her mind?
I think you already know the answer…
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer as well.
> Does this mean there’s little chance he’ll agree to the terms I want?
You’ve already told him what you want, but since he hasn’t given you a proper response, I think he’s waiting for you to give in and accept an arrangement on his terms.
It seems he figures that, eventually, you’ll stop getting offers and agree to it then.
If that seems like a real possibility, I think it’s fine to keep him as a backup.
But if you’re absolutely sure you’d never agree to it, no matter how difficult things get, then I think it’s best to say goodbye.
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I honestly think men who make a fuss over money are the worst…
For example, I’m sure men also dislike women who dodge an adult relationship (intimate) but ask for money every time.
From the way you described him, that papa (a male supporter) seems both sneaky and unwilling to accept reality, so I think it’s best to keep things casual with him.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date Yume, a male member.
I think it’s probably fine to put it on hold again for now... lol