Personally, I’d rather avoid a papa who makes me cook the meat.

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Whenever I go to a BBQ, I spend the whole time sweating over the grill and cooking for everyone. If everyone’s having a good time, that’s all that matters to me. So when it comes to papa-katsu, I’d rather have my papa grill the meat for me. Though I suppose saying, “Please let me cook for you,” would work too. Since I have people open the car door for me, I guess I really am a queen after all.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. All women are princesses. Whenever I’m called, I rush over to wherever you are and take you out for whatever you feel like eating. I’ll even take care of the leftovers. I’ll give you a massage, prepare your drinks, run errands, cook, and carry your bags.

I’m Aya, a female member. As I wrote that I’m also the type who likes someone else to grill the meat for me, I realized that either way is fine… I think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) tends to go more smoothly when you don’t have too many expectations. It’s nice if your papa (a male supporter) treats you like a princess, but it’s also fine if he doesn’t. Wouldn’t it be easier to approach things that way?

I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this too. > I don’t even like meat, but I’m taken to yakiniku restaurants and made to grill it. First of all, you should tell him upfront that you don’t like meat. If you prefer fish dishes, say that you like fish. Since your food preferences are also listed in your profile, I think it would be a good idea to write, “I don’t like meat” there—or ask the staff to add it for you. As for being made to grill the meat at yakiniku restaurants, I don’t think you’d be expected to do it if you simply sat there and didn’t touch anything. Is the man actually ordering you to grill it? Even if you don’t, I imagine he’d just grill it himself. Usually, it should be enough to grill only your own portion. If the problem is that he takes the meat as soon as it’s cooked, then perhaps putting a lot on the grill at once would solve it. It seems like this could be resolved fairly easily, though… > What kind of woman makes a man want to treat her like a princess? Someone who seems completely inexperienced—for example, someone who tries to go through the train gates without an IC card or a ticket and sets off the alarm. With someone who has that kind of naturally clueless vibe, a man feels he has to do everything for her, so I think she might end up being treated that way. That said, I don’t know whether there would be a second meeting. Also, if the man is an M type and the woman seems more like an S type, I can imagine them developing that kind of relationship. But I don’t know how many women are actually treated like princesses, so it’s hard to say.

Some people are disliked for fussing over their partner, while others resent being made to do it. There are all kinds. For a moment, you might think the woman is being selfish, but maybe the man simply wants things done his way. I think things go more smoothly when both people consider what would make the other person happy. That’s the basic rule of dealing with people, isn’t it? It’s not limited to dating clubs. Since money is involved in dating clubs, women may be more likely to put up with things, but if that becomes a source of stress, I don’t think you can have a good relationship. The reason he wants to treat her like a princess is simply because that’s the kind of person he is. Marika When a man opens the car door for me, I don’t think, “He’s treating me like a princess.” I think, “Oh, he really takes good care of his car.” If I were a man and some dating-club woman slammed the door into something or left fingerprints all over places other than the handle, I’d honestly curse myself: “Why did I let her open the door?”

I’m Kazu, a male member. Exactly—everyone’s different. So what it means to be treated like a princess differs from person to person. Your idea of being treated like a princess isn’t the same as mine. Personally, I don’t particularly want to treat women like princesses. I feel it would be disrespectful, as though I were treating them like children.