I saw a question from someone saying, “He kept telling me I was cute during dinner—it was so persistent!”
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I’ve met around ten people so far, and hardly any of them have complimented my looks by saying things like, “You really are cute in person,” or, “You’re genuinely beautiful.”
I assumed that most men don’t compliment a woman’s face after making an offer because they already liked her looks in the first place. But after seeing the question above, I’m worried that may have just been my misunderstanding. I already lack confidence in my appearance, so this has made me feel even more discouraged. I’d love to be told that my face is exactly their type (crying).
Do you usually compliment women on their looks?
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
Men don’t really have a strong cultural habit of complimenting women. So I think most men wonder, “Would anyone actually compliment a woman on her looks?”
But men who are popular with women tend to be good at that sort of thing. They compliment women often and notice even the smallest changes.
I’ve come to think that a “playboy” isn’t necessarily someone handsome, but someone who excels in those kinds of things.
So I don’t think you need to worry if he didn’t say anything. If he didn’t find you cute in the first place, he wouldn’t have made you an offer—or invited you to meet again.
There must be something about you that makes him want to see you again, which is why he’s willing to pay an allowance to meet you again.
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
That’s a good question.
Looks are important, but I don’t make offers based on looks alone（笑）
That said, I wouldn’t make an offer unless she was within my personal range of acceptability, so you can feel confident about that.
There are hardly ever any women who are an absolute perfect match, so don’t worry.
Have you ever accepted an offer, looked at the man in front of you, and thought, “He’s exactly my type”?
It’s the same thing.
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When I meet someone for the first time after receiving an offer, my profile only shows a secret photo or a blurred image, so they’ll say things like, “You’re beautiful.” But I assume they’re just being polite.
I often get compliments on my figure and how I look down there (lol). And I’m not all looks—I live up to the impression.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not in the habit of commenting on someone’s appearance, so I don’t compliment them.
The only time I’ve ever said anything like that was when I thought, “I’m lucky to be having sex with someone this beautiful,” while we were in bed. Even then, I’ve only said it once—to a woman I’d been seeing for about a year.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
It really depends on the papa. The ones who haven’t been very popular tend to compliment my face a lot, while those who’ve always been popular don’t compliment me as much. If anything, they seem more likely to compliment my figure than my face.
That said, even then, they don’t get too specific—maybe because they’re being considerate and don’t want to be rude by commenting on someone’s body.
In any case, it really varies from person to person, so I don’t think you need to worry about it.
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