I’ve noticed that some of the people answering here sometimes receive reverse offers. Are they basically a select few who are trusted by clubs through Secret? Can you make a reverse offer asking for advice on things like what to do when offers stop coming? Also, most of the women seemed to be in it for the money. Would I stand out if I joined mainly for physical intimacy?

I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer as well. > So, are these people specially selected because they’re kept secret and trusted by the club? I’m not quite sure what you mean, but if you call them “specially selected,” then I suppose they are. That said, basically, anyone can become one as long as they haven’t received any bad feedback. > Can I make a reverse offer asking for advice on what to do now that I’m no longer receiving offers? You can make a reverse offer, but whether a man will actually make an offer is another matter. Since he’ll have to pay setting fees, transportation costs, and so on, he generally won’t make an offer unless he likes the woman. However, for example, you could ask a question in the question box, receive an answer, and then ask a follow-up question about that answer. Sometimes the respondent may then say, “In that case, maybe I should make you a reverse offer.” If that happens, contact Maezawa through “Contact Us” at the bottom of the question box. I’ll pass your reverse offer on to the respondent. And if the respondent has also said they might make you a reverse offer, they’ll almost certainly make an offer. > Most women seemed to be motivated by money. Would I stand out if I joined because I’m interested in physical intimacy? Not at all. If you said something like, “I want to be intimate with 1,000 men, and I’ve kept a record of photos and sizes of all the men I’ve been with,” I’d think that was impressive. But at that point, I imagine most men would be put off, so something along the lines of, “I became interested in H with older men and ended up registering,” would probably be the safest approach. Actually, are you not even a member yet? It’s interesting that you’re already considering a reverse offer before joining. Have you found a respondent whose answers suggest they’d be impressive in bed? Come to think of it, there have apparently been women who said that going to hookup bars was their hobby and that they planned to visit one nearby after the interview. There are all kinds of reasons for registering.

I’m Kazu, a male member. > I’ve seen that some people receive reverse offers. Does that mean they’re select members with the club’s trust, chosen on a secret basis? I’m not sure what “secret” refers to, but I did undergo some kind of screening to become an answerer. > Can I send a reverse offer asking for advice, such as what to do now that offers have stopped coming? If a reverse offer is accepted and a man makes an offer to a woman, a setup fee is charged just as it is for a regular offer. In other words, the woman will receive an offer in response to your reverse offer if the man is willing to pay the club’s setup fee because he wants to talk with her or meet her. > Also, most women seemed to be motivated by money. Would I stand out if I joined with the goal of finding a physical relationship? Even if that’s your goal, you probably wouldn’t be interested in just anyone. Wanting a physical relationship presumably means you’re looking for someone with a certain type of body. You probably would stand out.