A former male member I was seeing told me, “I want a child.” Apparently, he didn’t mean that he wanted to finish inside me—he felt that he wanted to have a child with me. He was married, so of course we never did that, and he always used protection.
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In the end, I could no longer see him because I was transferred for work, though...
What do you think was going through his mind when he said that?
The man I’m seeing now doesn’t say things like that...
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
It’s not easy to come right out and say you want children, is it? (lol) Since children inherit their parents’ genes, you’d feel uneasy about the future unless you had a clear idea of what your child might be like before starting a family, right? (lol)
Maybe that man had a clear picture in mind and felt confident about it. I think the other men simply don’t feel as confident.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
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When you say you want kids, if you actually had someone have your child, would you really take proper care of them?
Today, I spent the whole day—from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.—playing with my daughter at the park and I’m completely wiped out... At least I’ve gotten pretty good at catching grasshoppers.
What kids need isn’t just child support or money.
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There are men who say things like that, right?
Some genuinely mean it in the moment, some only say it when they’re drunk, and others only say it during sex.
You shouldn’t trust any of them.
If he truly wanted a child, he’d make the necessary arrangements and tell you to have his baby, promising that you’d never have to worry about anything for the rest of your life.
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