Isn’t it pretty rare to meet someone you actually want to see a second time?

Is that so? Most people usually want to keep seeing me, so I end up with no free time, which can be a bit difficult. I wonder if I’m just too picky, or if my intuition is off?! People like that may have a lower chance of meeting someone good, but when they do, perhaps the relationship lasts longer. Marika

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Since men choose women they feel they’ll click with, there aren’t many they don’t want to see a second time. If the questioner is a woman, I can understand it, but if you’re a man, the hit rate seems pretty low. Because this is a club, you can easily meet women one after another, so I don’t think you need the instinctive sense for the hunt that’s part of our nature. But if you want to form a deeper connection, I do think you need to hone your instincts and find women who are truly compatible with you. In a real hunt—ordinary romantic relationships—the odds of meeting someone are maybe one in fifty or even one in a thousand compared with the club. Everything feels precious, and you can feel genuine joy and excitement simply from starting a relationship with someone…

I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t have many, either.