During sex, some people keep touching me even after I’ve climaxed. It hurts when I’m touched afterward…

I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it’s best to gently and politely say something like, “I’ve already climaxed, so it hurts when you touch me,” or, “I prefer it when you tease me a little—barely touching me, or almost not touching me at all.”

I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member. You can make him stop by taking actions that clearly show you’re uncomfortable—such as holding his hand back, pulling your hips away, or making your body jerk noticeably. Some women climax and then continue to have multiple waves of climax afterward. So if you don’t react at all when you climax, the man may think he should keep caressing you slowly and gently to help you feel even more. That’s why you need to make it clear to him directly that your reactions are different, that you’re inexperienced beyond that point, or that you simply don’t want it. Alternatively, you could encourage him to proceed by saying, “Put it in,” around the moment just before you climax. P.S. If you’re still in your early twenties, it may be too soon to settle into one fixed pattern of climaxing. So part of me thinks it could also be good to continue slowly and gently from there and explore something new.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. So that’s what it was after all. I actually got warned about that just the other day, haha. I was simply scolded with, “Don’t move your finger!” ^^;