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Apr 14, 2021 11:15
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
No, no—that premise is all wrong.
“Successful rich person = decent human being” is false. The correct equation is “decent human being = decent human being.” Success, status, and money have nothing to do with it.
With that kind of worldview, you’ll overlook the decent people right under your nose, you know?
Money and success aren’t directly proportional to someone’s character.
Come to think of it, I was student council president in elementary school, and I was incredibly popular. Even back then, I thought, “Women are really susceptible to status and stuff, huh? How ridiculous.” I was a pretty cynical kid.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I honestly can’t understand how people can spend so much time speculating about other people’s personal lives. I think you and your partner, who clearly enjoys tabloid gossip, should enjoy discussing it together.
I also can’t understand why you consider Mr. Yoza a true success story. Money may be equal in value regardless of how it’s obtained, but when it comes to calling someone successful, the means matter.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If your children grow up healthy and your happy family life continues, then given your age, you should be able to remain devoted to your wife.
That said, like me, Mr. Yoza appears to be more of a serious, respectable type than a handsome playboy. That makes it surprisingly easy to do things without arousing suspicion—people think, “No way, not him.” It’s a perk that serious, kind-looking men who inspire trust have—something a handsome man could never get away with because he’d be suspected.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Regardless of Mr. Yoza, I don’t think married people would need papa-katsu or to seek a mistress if things were going well at home.
However, due to various circumstances, their home life may not be harmonious—or perhaps only certain aspects of it aren’t. It’s complicated.
I hope you never find yourself in a situation where you come to understand such things, but if that day does come, you may eventually think, “I guess that’s just how it is.”
Also, both papa-katsu and having a mistress generally cost money. (For women, that would be mama-katsu.) Perhaps it’s important to build an environment as soon as possible where you can manage the funds needed for these activities.
Once you’re in a position to take part, you may find yourself becoming surprisingly proactive about it, too.（笑）