Of the women you met through Universe Club arrangements, how many were okay with not using a condom from the start? I’d appreciate it if you could break it down into those who agreed to go without one after negotiations and those who allowed it to happen without any negotiation.

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. The sample size is completely different, and I’ve never even negotiated about it in the first place, but: - Number of adult relationships through Universe Club: approximately 15 - Women who recommended going without a condom: 0 - Women who agreed to go without one after negotiation: 0 (I’ve never negotiated with anyone about it) - Women who allowed it to happen without negotiation: 0 Sorry this probably isn’t very helpful m(_ _)m

I’m Kazu, a male member. Unless it’s someone I know well, I’m too worried about going without a condom to even negotiate about it. But 10% of the women I’ve met have said it was okay not to use one, even though they had condoms ready by the bed. I find women who agree to go without a condom on the first meeting frightening, so I didn’t give in to temptation and put one on. I counted the numbers to write this answer, and I was surprised by how high the percentage was. > Mac It’s more like this: I put on a condom to go in, lost my erection a little, and then she started again and got me hard, at which point she said, “You can go in without putting it on.”