When a Western male member joins, what kind of women do the staff recommend to him? I’d like to know the general criteria or tendencies.

Ishida from the International and Singapore branches will respond. Interestingly, the preferences of our foreign male members are just as varied as those of Japanese male members. What they want in a woman to meet truly differs from person to person. That said, there are a few things they generally have in common: 1. Language Some foreign male members speak Japanese, but most speak only English. Of course, women who can use English perfectly are ideal. However, even if a woman makes an effort to speak English, men are likely to feel that she is genuinely trying, which can lead to a good relationship. If you think, “I’m not confident in English…” or “I’m too embarrassed to use it,” and don’t try to use the English you know, the man may wonder, “Maybe she isn’t interested in me?” Even if you only know a few words or phrases, making an effort to use them will leave a positive impression on a foreign man! *You can also enjoy your date using the Google Translate app on your phone! 2. Appearance Foreign men want to meet Japanese women. Women with larger breasts, curvier hips, and a slim waist—like women from overseas—are easy for them to meet in their own countries, so that isn’t what they are looking for in Japan. Rather, they want to meet women with a distinctly Japanese, traditionally “wa” aesthetic. Instead of trying to match what foreigners look like, it’s perfectly fine to simply be yourself and embrace your natural appearance. 3. Personality Like Japanese male members, our foreign male members join only after having an interview. They receive an explanation of characteristics commonly associated with Japanese women and send date offers with that understanding. That said, women who can speak openly and directly without being too shy are definitely the best match! There are other small things that can make an even better impression on foreign men, but if you can meet the above three points, I believe you can build a good relationship. Katsu­ taka Ishida

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. First and foremost, can you speak the language? Next, do you have a look that’s likely to appeal overseas? Wouldn’t those be the main things?