I’m the male member who previously asked about the “LOVEXIA vibrator.” Since then, I’ve been enjoying watching her squirt regularly (lol). Maybe because I made her squirt, we seem to have built trust, and she’s given me permission to explore a**l play (I’m thrilled). Could you tell me how to go about it and recommend any beginner-friendly toys? I’d appreciate your answers.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I’ve only experimented with my own a○al area, but it’s definitely safest to stick to toys designed specifically for a○al use. I once tried putting something else in, thinking, “Maybe this will fit?” and ended up with inflammation a few days later, lol.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male club member who prefers electric massagers over toys (though at the club, I’m more into natural chemistry without using anything). Thanks for the great question. It definitely makes me curious and makes me want to get one. Since it’s a vibrating electric massager, it seems like it should be safe and easy to use. If you search for “female domme + [location]” or “female domme + squirting + [location],” you’ll find quite a few specialty shops focused on male squirting. They also help develop men’s anal sensitivity, and specialists who focus particularly on anal play will give you thorough training and guidance, so I think it could be educational. That said, whether you actually want to try it—or find it pleasurable—is another matter… Incidentally, a long, slender vibrator for anal use—the flexible, curvy kind—also worked surprisingly well vaginally and got a good response. Also, the type a man wears, inserts into his own anus, and uses to tighten around the base while having regular penetrative sex was better than I expected.