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Jul 7, 2024 11:31
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I didn’t realize it was there until he pointed it out. At this rate, my other papas and boyfriend will find out too. Is there a way to get rid of a hickey on my back quickly, deal with the pay-per-meeting papa who left it, or come up with the best excuse for my other papas and boyfriend?
Also, my monthly-arrangement papa’s nosiness is getting annoying now that things have become awkward. Even though I didn’t ask, he gave me his business card to show off his status and authority, and he keeps trying to find out personal details about me. We met through a dating club, but he seems to think he’s my only partner(笑)
Should I just be honest and end things with him? For reference, I have other papas who would continue giving me a stable monthly allowance even if we broke up.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
How to deal with a papa who leaves hickeys:
→ Clearly tell him you’ll end things if he does it again.
How to explain it to your boyfriend and other papas:
→ Say you bumped into something and have a bruise, or that it’s an insect bite.
As for the awkward monthly papa:
→ Tell him you also have other papas and a boyfriend. If he can’t get over his jealousy and becomes annoying, end things.
Wouldn’t that be the best approach?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’d probably find ways to get rid of a hickey more easily by searching online than by posting the question here.
A hickey is just a bruise, so depending on how it looks, you can probably come up with any number of excuses. The best explanation isn’t something other people here can give you—it’s something you improvise on the spot based on your usual relationship with the person.
As for whether you should break up or not, why not think that through for yourself?