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May 7, 2024 14:13
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If I did papa-katsu to save money for cosmetic surgery, would my partner, the person I love, or my family be hurt?
I assume most of you keep it hidden, but are you prepared for the relationship to end if they find out?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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You might break up if you get caught—or you might not. It really depends on the people involved.
If you prepare properly, it’s possible to keep it hidden.
Compared with a poorly handled affair, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), especially through a dating club, is more systematized in various ways, so you can reduce the chances of getting caught.
(The important thing is for both sides to choose their partner carefully.)
Doing papa-katsu to pay for plastic surgery, orthodontic treatment, or beauty treatments seems pretty efficient to me.
With papa-katsu, you don’t have to see anyone you dislike, you can enjoy delicious food, and depending on the situation, you may even have experiences beyond what you could normally afford.
Personally, I don’t think it’s that bad as long as you don’t go about it the wrong way, prepare properly, and know what you’re doing.
That is, if you can find a papa (a male supporter) who respects you as a person, like Fuu does lol…
There are certainly also pushy, self-centered wealthy papas who are mainly looking for intimacy, so make sure to develop a good eye for choosing the right person lol.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Calling it simply “something popular among young girls” feels like a pretty careless generalization, but setting that aside:
Relationships between people vary, so it doesn’t necessarily mean anyone will be hurt, nor is it always necessary to prepare for the relationship to end.