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Feb 23, 2023 20:40
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I also feel like those kinds of men tend to be popular.
But once you get a little closer to them, you start noticing that something feels off. Are the people who don’t notice simply being deceived? Am I still lucky to have realized it?
This is based on my own experience. I was being played, but I noticed the obvious red flags in his personality and am about to walk away. Still, I like him.
I don’t want to keep pestering him, and I know this situation is strange, but what should I do? I’ve never liked anyone this much before.
He’s 40. But there’s just something off about his personality.
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👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s best to part ways with people you don’t click with.
Try not to get involved with anyone who seems even slightly off.
I think ending things is the best option.
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Success doesn’t come so easily to someone who’s kind and compassionate like a saint.
You need the passion, grit, and cunning to win against the competition—and sometimes you have to get ahead even if it means pushing others down. Crime is off-limits, of course, but sometimes you do need to beat others in legitimate competition.
I’m not sure what level you consider “scummy,” though. Are you calling him scummy because he’s such a womanizer?
If he’s successful, he probably isn’t all that scummy.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I can understand why women might be attracted to lousy men.
But I don’t think lousy men can necessarily be financially successful.
They may not have to worry about making ends meet if they get women to support them financially, though…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Is that about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
You seem pretty trashy yourself, posting something like that in an anonymous papa-katsu Q&A box.