What do you all find fun during sex? (Not things that feel physically good)

Sorry for the late thank-you. Thank you all for your advice the other day. Following everyone’s advice, after dinner at that tall hotel by Lake Biwa, I invited her up to the room and was able to help her “graduate”! When we got into the room, I thought I was going to push her down, but instead she said I smelled nice (it happens sometimes), pushed me down, and started sniffing me all over. I remember thinking, “Here I am, a virgin with my upper body exposed while she sniffs me,” and, “She really is a professional virgin!” But as Mac-san said, it was one of those classic virgin moments—because she had no experience, she didn’t realize what she was doing, even though it would normally be embarrassing. So I just let her do as she pleased. Since she had never seen a condom before, I taught her how to use it, along with the basics of using her hands and mouth. In the end, we managed to finish at the same time and everything worked out. Afterward, she sat with her legs folded to one side, staring at one spot on the sheet, and said, “It’s there.” I leaned over and said, “You’re right.” Then she said, “Stop looking,” and I replied, “Come on, let me see,” followed by, “I’m going to push you down and sniff you again,” to which she answered, “No, please!” The whole exchange became so funny, almost like a comedy sketch, that we ended up playfully hitting each other and laughing together. I’m also currently staying overnight at another girl’s place. We’ve been seeing each other for five years, and after she returned from a holiday trip with her boyfriend, she invited me out for dinner and a hot-stone spa. With her too, every time we’re intimate, we laugh when we see each other’s smug faces after climaxing. Sometimes even just pulling down our underwear makes us laugh because we somehow understand each other without saying a word. It made me realize that intimacy where you can laugh together is the most fun. Even though our relationship is what it is, we’re equals, and that’s precisely why we can laugh together during sex. I really felt again that this is what makes it enjoyable. What kinds of things make intimacy fun for all of you?