Do you dislike women who make people angry, no matter how attractive they are?
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I always seem to make people angry. People either get mad at me or tell me I’m a good girl—there’s no middle ground.
Would the ideal be a perfectly beautiful woman who never upsets anyone?
Should I pretend to be someone I’m not?
You should be fine as long as you don’t make that papa angry.
You’ll probably continue seeing the papas who tell you you’re a good girl, while things won’t last with the ones who get angry. If he does get angry, your appearance probably has nothing to do with it.
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I sometimes upset people at my day job too, but I was lucky enough to find a good papa (a male supporter).
Just reflect on what upset them and use that lesson going forward.
People who can’t learn from their mistakes won’t make money. That’s true in regular work and in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) alike.
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I tried to think back, but I’ve never actually felt angry at a woman I met through a dating club. At most, I might think, “What the hell was that?” or “She’s young.”
I have gotten irritated when someone teased me in bed and took forever to put my penis in her mouth—I just wanted her to get on with it.
Unless someone deliberately does something malicious to me, I probably won’t get angry.
So if the questioner is making their partners angry, either the questioner is seriously problematic, or they’re simply imagining things.
To answer the question: not making people angry isn’t some kind of extraordinary achievement. It’s just normal. I don’t want anything to do with someone who can’t even behave normally in relationships, no matter how beautiful she is, how good she is at oral sex, or how tight she is.
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> Do you dislike a woman who makes people angry, no matter how attractive she is?
If she were truly attractive, I don’t think the other person would get angry.
I think people’s attitudes really do change that much based on appearance.
Even if they make the same mistake, a beautiful woman will be forgiven, while someone who isn’t will get scolded. That’s how it seems to me.
In other words, if the other person gets angry, it probably means you’re not as attractive as you think you are.
That said—
> They’re either telling me I’m a good girl, or they’re extremely harsh.
If there are people who say nice things to you, I think you should only associate with those kinds of people.
> Should I pretend to be nicer?
A temporary act will be seen through immediately.
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The person asking the question is being honest, to put it kindly.
Don’t you think even the food tastes worse when the atmosphere is unpleasant?
Even if my female companion gets upset and things become awkward, I try to steer the situation back in a better direction—but I usually end up thinking there won’t be a next time.
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If there are people who tell you they like it, I think that’s perfectly fine.
This may sound conceited, but in my case, while I wouldn’t say I appeal to everyone, quite a broad range of people tend to take a liking to me to some extent. That’s normal for me, so it doesn’t wear me out, though people often ask me whether I ever get tired of it. Some people do end up feeling drained and exhausted by it.
It depends on what you’re aiming for, but pretending or forcing yourself to act a certain way can be exhausting. If you don’t have to do that, I think it’s better not to.
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For example, I’m always making the other respondents angry. But I feel like I have a decent amount of support from PJ girls nationwide—though maybe that’s just my imagination.
It’s impossible to be liked by everyone, so find a man who will say, “I like you just the way you are,” even if some people dislike you or get angry with you. If you have a “good girl” side, there’s absolutely no problem. It’s simply a matter of compatibility.
The ace I value most makes me angry fairly often, too. I’m actually a pretty easygoing person in real life (or so I think), but my ace is really good at getting under my skin, lol.
I wonder if he does it on purpose?
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