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A woman I’m scheduled to go on a first date with sent me the details of the date. She also went into detail about the physical side of things. She listed a total of seven hours. She said she would be happy to receive an allowance of ○ yen, but that she would leave it up to me. Does this mean ○ yen plus transportation expenses? I suppose I could ask her directly, but from reading this Q&A section, I know that some women are unhappy when transportation costs are included in the allowance. It seems better to add transportation expenses separately. What do you think?

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I’ve never heard of someone setting things out that clearly on a first date. If you’re both happy with it, though, there’s nothing wrong with that. She may be a fairly experienced PJ who’s comfortable keeping things transactional. As for transportation costs, either including them or keeping them separate is fine as long as you make it clear. If you want to keep seeing her, you can offer a little extra; if not, just stick to the agreed amount.

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