I’m a male member. I’m not married, but I do have children. Of course, I fully support them financially. I have no desire to marry. (Everything up to here is irrelevant.)

I live alone in a condo in the city. Since the view is nice, I used to enjoy drinking there with someone I met here, as we both like alcohol. Recently, she has started staying over when she doesn’t feel like going home, and I’ve begun keeping the things she needs in my room, including underwear. If I continue allowing this, where will things lead? If I eventually want to end things, will I be able to? I feel somewhat burdened, but compared with going on dates at hotels, it’s convenient to be able to sleep in my own bed when I get tired. I’m weighing both sides and wondering what to do. If I refuse to meet at my condo from now on, I feel that it might ruin the close relationship we’ve built. I feel there may be something wrong with the way I handle relationships. Things just developed this way, and although I regret it, should I end the relationship?