Depending on the type of man, is it better not to come across as too career-driven?
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My main profession is one that tends to be very popular with men, so I receive a lot of offers. However, since it doesn’t have much of a future and work has decreased due to COVID, I’m also working in another specialized field. Most people in that field are highly educated, and my impression is that they’re overwhelmingly men.
My reason for doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is to raise funds to start a company related to that specialized field. When I talk about this, around 60% of the men respond by saying it’s interesting and encouraging me to go for it. Some even give me a large sum of money all at once, saying they want to invest in my company.
However, the other 40% look disappointed. Once my company is up and running, I plan to quit my glamorous profession, and around 40% of the men also oppose that. I assume they were looking for a woman they could feel a sense of achievement with or show off, so they’re disappointed that I’m not that kind of woman. Depending on the type of man, should I avoid mentioning my specialized profession?
Also, I’m so busy that I don’t have much desire to get married. Would saying that also be a turn-off?
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You have a lot to think about, but the real question is: what kind of life would you prefer if you took your papa out of the picture?
Is it really impossible to start your own company without relying on your papa—or rather, his money?
Do you dislike the idea of being liked by 60% of them but turning off the other 40%?
If you’ve decided to quit your current job and run a company in your professional field, then surely it wouldn’t be a big deal if 40% of them lost interest in you, would it?
If your goal is to save as much money as possible through papa-katsu before quitting your regular job to start the company, then you’ll probably have no choice but to adapt your approach to each papa’s preferences.
As you said at the beginning, I think things will work out better if you adjust your words and actions depending on the type of person you’re dealing with.
Marika
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When I think of professions that men might find attractive, I tend to think of flight attendants, but I don’t really understand why people say there isn’t much future in that career. Since none of us knows what the future holds, I sometimes think being a celebrity might be a good option.
Adult video actresses are popular with their fans, so I assume they’re well-liked, but they don’t seem to be particularly popular at Universe Club. What a shame.
There was even a time when people said Chinese men would pay tens of millions of yen just to spend one night with a famous Japanese adult video actress. (I’m not sure what things are like now because of COVID.) So perhaps the male members at Universe are just a different demographic.
> Depending on the man’s preferences, would it be better not to mention having a specialized profession?
If some men really do find it disappointing, then I think it would be best to figure out what type of person he is first and only mention it to men who seem receptive.
> I don’t want to get married. Would saying that also be a turnoff?
I don’t think anyone would be put off by it, but hearing that might prompt some men to say that you should get married. If you would find that kind of conversation bothersome, then I think it’s better not to bring it up.
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Everyone has different tastes, so you don’t have to be liked by everyone. It’s fine even if you don’t get many offers. If the people who like you continue to support you, it’s basically the same as always getting offers.
I’m pretty decrepit myself, so I like women with lots of energy（笑）
Also, quite a few people aren’t interested in getting married, and since I prefer long-term relationships, I actually welcome that.
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Just focus on the 60% who are willing to invest even more in you.
The key to business success is probably keeping costs low.
CA is physically exhausting too, so let’s just wrap things up casually.
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For example, let’s say that profession is being a flight attendant.
Since it’s an extremely popular profession in the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) world, I’m sure there are plenty of papas (male supporters) who would want to date you because you’re a flight attendant—and who wouldn’t want you to quit.
But that’s a load of crap. I think you should find a papa who supports your life goals and move forward with his support. I personally like women who have ambition and work hard toward it. If someone stayed a flight attendant just because it’s popular, or hid her dreams, I don’t think we’d ever become truly close, and I’d probably part ways with her.
It’s not that I dislike women who don’t want to talk about or choose to hide parts of their past or present. I just want them to feel comfortable being themselves.
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