I have a woman I’m seeing who often hints at male friends or dates, or shows me photos of meals at restaurants with men who seem like they could be romantic partners. Is she deliberately trying to make me jealous, or is she just making conversation?
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In the past, I felt there was something calculated about her subtle birthday hints and asking for presents, so I can’t help wondering whether this is calculated too.
I’m also seeing multiple women, so I don’t mind hearing about other men at all. But even though she says, “You’re the only one right now,” I don’t understand why she would go out of her way to bring up things that seem likely to work against her... For reference, I believe the allowance I give her is above average.
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It might be jealousy, but I also feel it’s a way for women to create conversation.
I’m the same as Mac.
I ask what kind of things he does with other women, since we don’t have many topics in common.
I don’t talk about work with women either. Unless they work in the same field, they won’t know the context, so explaining everything is just a waste of time.
And when they say things like, “That sounds tough,” it doesn’t really make me feel anything.
Once you become intimate, you get closer and can have fun talking about erotic things. And if you go somewhere together, you can talk about those memories afterward. I think it would be nice if we could enjoy ourselves through things like that.
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She’s probably acting coy to stir up your jealousy and get money or gifts out of you. There are women like that sometimes.
If you’re okay with that kind of person, you can keep seeing her. If not, I think you should end things.
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Something similar happened in the past, so I casually asked her about it. She said her priorities were boyfriend > Arii > other papas > male friends, so she didn’t think I needed to worry. She also told me she wouldn’t mention it to her boyfriend or other papas.
The gifts were pretty much the same too. When I asked if she was calculating everything, she said she wasn’t—but I’m competitive, so I went ahead and bought her something more expensive than what her boyfriend and other papas had given her.
I’m pretty sure it was all calculated on her part, but she knows my personality well, so I went along with it（笑）
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Maybe it’s a VPN.
You can’t know what a stranger is really thinking, so the only option is to ask them directly. For example: “You say I’m the only one right now, so why would you go out of your way to tell me something that could make me think less of you?”
I don’t understand why everyone asks on a Q&A site instead of addressing the person directly.
By the way, unless it’s prostitution, I don’t think the amount of the allowance has much effect on the nature of the relationship.
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You might be included among her male friends—or maybe she’s doing it deliberately? ( ´・ω・｀)
I don’t really understand her feelings either, but since you’re worrying about it like this, maybe she has you wrapped around her little finger! ( ⁎･ᴗ･⁎ )
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