I’ve met a lot of men through other mistress clubs and apps, including Universe here. When I meet a man for the first time, he always seems to like me, and I often get compliments. Except for the men I turned down, almost all of them have invited me to meet again, and I’ve gone on those second dates.
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However, hardly any of them ever invite me out a third time.
What do you think could be causing this?
Is it something like, “I thought she seemed great after the first date, so I invited her out again, but then I realized something felt off”? I don’t feel like I’m doing anything differently the second time around.>>} Jiova? Wait JSON invalid due extra. Need output proper. Also
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You haven’t said after how many dates the adult relationship (intimate) happened, so there’s no way to answer.
If you were intimate on the second date but not the third, he may have disliked your body odor or thought you weren’t good in bed.
If you didn’t become intimate on the second date either, he may have assumed you weren’t interested in an adult relationship (intimate) and decided not to see you a third time.
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If you don’t have any issues with body odor or personal hygiene, try to make yourself more charming each time you meet—on the second date, the third, and so on.
At each meeting, gradually reveal a little of what seems like your genuine feelings—something your papa (a male supporter) would be happy to hear—and make him feel even more valued.
Otherwise, I think he’ll lose interest as the meetings go on.
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Makio,
Everything except the horsehair crab seems to apply to me too（笑）
I wonder why.
Questioner, are you doing an adult relationship (intimate) from the first meeting?
For example, if you were intimate from the very first meeting and were completely passive, your papa may have thought you were just nervous.
You tried again the second time—and were still completely passive.
Either way, it sounds like you’re not satisfying him in bed. Think it over carefully.
Unless you satisfy your papa enough to justify the allowance, there won’t be any continuation. He’ll look for a woman who can satisfy him.
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As things stand, I feel that meeting twice would be enough—I wouldn’t want to see him a third time.
I imagine it’s not just the chemistry; the sexual compatibility and overall experience probably aren’t that great either.
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In my case, it usually either ends after the first meeting or continues for at least three more meetings. If I meet someone a second time but don’t see or invite her for a third, it’s because I’ve met another girl I like better and want to spend more time with her.
As Mac says, even if you feel that you’re acting the same, your attitude may have changed without you realizing it.
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It might help to look at the reverse situation. What kind of papa would agree on an allowance, have an adult relationship (intimate) once, and then make you think, “There won’t be a second time”?
- He was incredibly hairy when he undressed
- His penis was way too big
- I couldn’t stand his body odor
- He was terrible in bed
- Even though I tried my best, he didn’t finish, so it wasn’t enjoyable
Something like that, I suppose.
Maybe you’re being cut off because of something similar on your end—for example, your ○○ was △△.
For what it’s worth, I once ended things after one encounter with a woman because she was so tight that it actually hurt.
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