Maezawa’s comment is pretty close to how I feel.
I get a fair number of likes, but I’ve only ever sent an offer to one person. I wasn’t particularly looking for someone new at the time, so I probably hadn’t gone through the whole list. Still, if I hadn’t received a like from her, I might not have sent the offer.
I do think it’s better to send one than not, but getting several likes from the same person within a short period feels a little much.
Also, since comments can now be added, both the comment and its content are important—but I think it’s better to include one.
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When a man receives a “You’re wonderful,” I feel like he simply judges it based on whether or not the woman is his type.
So, if it comes from a woman he isn’t interested in, I don’t think it means anything.
That said, men who haven’t fully browsed through the list of women may receive a “You’re wonderful” from someone who happens to be their type, which could lead to an offer.
The chances are probably low, but I do think there’s still some hope there.
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Likes can be a starting point too, but the criteria men use to choose someone are the same.
One advantage is that it puts to rest any concern that she might not actually be active, so men can feel more comfortable making an offer. They’re also more likely to approach her proactively after meeting in person.
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“Nice” messages sent without even reading the profile are basically ineffective. There are plenty of people who just tap away without looking.
It’s the same as on dating apps where men are looking for women—some just like everyone without checking their profiles.
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It sounds like you’ve already reached your own conclusion, haven’t you?
Personally, I’ve set my profile so that only people I’ve made an offer to can view it, since I don’t need “likes” that are unlikely to lead to an offer.
The reason I feel that way is that I have a pretty clear idea of the kind of woman I’d like to date.
Of course, unlike me, there are probably men who want to meet women who would “like” them first.
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