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Apr 20, 2022 20:59
9 answers
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
To put it bluntly, if you’re in your 40s, I feel like there are probably countless other things you should be thinking about. Though that’s just my impression.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I reply as quickly as I can. I don’t play games or anything like that.
If I’m working or otherwise busy, I don’t rush to respond. I take as long as necessary, depending on the message.
I’ve never found it particularly stressful.
I don’t send follow-up messages unless they’re necessary.
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t worry about it at all either（笑）
Just send a message whenever you have the time!
That’s really all there is to it.
We’re both busy, so unless it’s urgent, I usually message her once I’ve finished a major task at work.
Basically, we aim for one exchange a day（笑)
アーリー
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I’m not worried about it. I’m comfortable going at my own pace, and they can go at theirs. If that’s stressful for either of us, then I think it’s best to part ways.
茉莉花
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He asked me if there were any times when it would be inconvenient for him to message me on LINE, so I said anytime was fine. Then he started sending me long messages and tons of photos every day, which became overwhelming.
He mostly talked about places he’d visited, like museums, and books he’d read. It was exhausting just trying to read everything, and since he was retired and had plenty of free time, he’d even message me while I was working.
It became too stressful, so I gradually faded out of contact.
As long as he doesn’t do anything that inconsiderate, I think it should be fine to some extent.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think there’s a single ideal interval that works for everyone.
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As a general rule of thumb, if they take three minutes to reply, you can reply in three or four minutes, then gradually start taking about a minute longer each time. Once you’re both getting bored, just wrap up the conversation for the day.
That said, you don’t need to be too strict about it. It’s a waste of energy to worry over something like that. How things are when you meet in person is a hundred times more important than LINE. If you can’t get along face-to-face, no messaging technique will make you close.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re unsure, just message them at the same intervals they message you.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That obviously depends on the person.
Try asking the woman you’re seeing.