Since boyfriends came up, I’d like to ask about my situation too. The other day was my birthday, and my papa invited me out to dinner, but I already had plans to spend it with some female friends. When I told him that honestly, he said, “Oh, so you’re having a birthday party with your friends~” He’s usually very easygoing, but he clearly didn’t seem happy about it.
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From my papa’s perspective, does it seem suspicious for me to spend my birthday with female friends? Maybe he actually thinks I have a boyfriend.
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I’m sure this has already been said, but papas who pay can sometimes start making bigger and bigger demands. This might be one of those cases.
At this point, all you can probably do is sincerely apologize that day and send him a photo.
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It’s probably not that he seemed suspicious.
I think she was upset because she felt she was being given lower priority than that friend.
And maybe the papa (a male supporter) had actually been planning something for her birthday—like a present or a fancy dinner—which may have made her even more disappointed.
You could try asking, “Would you like to meet on the eve of my birthday?” He might be willing to compromise.
But if he hadn’t been thinking about her birthday at all, he does seem a little narrow-minded as a papa (a male supporter).
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As I mentioned in another answer, I’m excluding special events, so I think it simply depends on the papa (a male supporter).
If someone doesn’t like it, they probably won’t like it regardless of who they’re meeting.
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I wouldn’t invite her out on her actual birthday.
What an inconsiderate guy.
That said, it’s a different story if she’s getting him to buy her an expensive birthday present.
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He might feel reassured if you took a photo of everyone celebrating you that day and sent it to him.
Though if he’s jealous because you prioritized your female friends over him, that probably won’t resolve the issue.
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Women naturally talk to each other about these things.
As long as she isn’t seeing multiple papas, she doesn’t need to lie or hide things in her everyday life, so there’s no worry about mixing up which papa she told what to. She might casually talk about the friends she spends time with, show you their photos, or share pictures and videos from birthday parties, events, and trips. If you know which friends she’s been with, you probably wouldn’t think anything of it.
But if her private life is shrouded in mystery, she rarely mentions anyone or shows you photos, you might start to suspect something.
I can tell whether someone is speaking openly about everything or choosing their words carefully.
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