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Mar 22, 2022 22:12
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Also, if you found them somewhere else, would you reach out to them?
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あや
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Other
It does feel a little stalkerish.
Please stop. More than you might realize, women find it frightening to have their actions tracked by men they don’t like.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not registered with any other dating clubs.
But even if I were, I don’t think I’d reach out to her.
If anything, I might avoid dating women who are registered with multiple clubs.
太郎
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Other
I once spotted a woman I’d broken things off with registered at another dating club, and I couldn’t resist contacting her.
I sent something innocent like, “I happened to see you on ●●. You’re doing great—rooting for you!” But she never replied.
Even if you happen to see someone you used to date, I think it’s best to consider it a different timeline.
Taro
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m registered with some different types of services.
By “different types,” I mean places like major agencies that list the allowance upfront, as well as individual broker-like services.
Even if I find someone on another platform, I don’t reach out because I think they’d just find it creepy.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I personally think Universe is the safest, so I don’t know whether there are any better options.
Either way, I don’t think you should rely on other people to tell you. The basic rule is to go with the one you feel is right for you.
綾瀬なな
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Other
Questioner… that sounds kind of like stalking.