I’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) with the woman I’m seeing about three times, but perhaps because she has little experience and isn’t used to it, she remains passive throughout (though she isn’t completely unresponsive).
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I’d like to switch things up and have her take the lead sometimes. How should I bring it up?
By the way, I’m fairly confident about my personal hygiene.
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Switching roles probably isn’t realistic, and even if you suggest it, she likely won’t go along with it.
For now:
- Gradually try adding a few different positions
- Try changing locations, such as the sofa or standing
Take things slowly and see how she responds. If she’s receptive, there’s a chance the sex—and her sensitivity—may improve. Don’t force anything; doing it too suddenly may put her off.
At the same time, observe her carefully and adjust your approach so you can help her enjoy it more.
Some women also become better at sex as they gain experience with age.
If it were me, I’d try the above, and if she still remained completely passive, I’d give up.
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I believe that a passive woman will always remain passive.
With this woman, I just enjoy dinner, while I enjoy sex with women who are more proactive.
If I really want to help her open up, I suppose all I can do is talk to her gently.
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You probably don’t know how to take the lead, so I think it would be best for the person asking to give specific instructions about what they want.
Seeing the look on your face as you respond may make them want to do more for you.
I generally like women who are passive and have no interest in switching roles, but I do enjoy being on top, so I often take that position.
Usually, they quickly become unable to move, and I like watching them enjoy the sensation as I thrust upward from below…
But the other day, I was with a very submissive woman, and when I put her on top in the same way, she kept moving for quite a long time, which felt great.
When I asked her what was going on, she said that because I looked like I was enjoying myself, she really wanted to move more vigorously.
I think she’s probably the kind of submissive woman who enjoys pleasing her partner.
Good luck.
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