In response to a question about viewing a woman’s profile after making an offer, one of the staff members here, Mr. Maezawa, commented, “Why would you need to look at it after making the offer?”
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/12349
I sometimes look back at a woman’s profile before a second or third date to reconfirm things like her food preferences, hobbies, and what she’s looking for.
Is it strange to look at her profile after making an offer for purposes like this?
Of course, I suppose I should at least remember the hobbies and preferences of someone I’ve already been on a date with. However, when I’m seeing several women at the same time, I sometimes get my memories mixed up, so I check again just to be safe.
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I don’t think it’s strange either.
Apparently, the woman I’ve been seeing the longest had hidden every man she’d gone on dates with, so I don’t remember what her profile said.
It hasn’t caused any problems, though, so either way is fine with me…
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As mentioned in the response to the previous question, women have posted about this in the Q&A box many times. Some papas are difficult and tell you, “Don’t date any other papas,” so a fair number of women hide their profiles from papas who have made them an offer.
Fuu completely understands that feeling. When I receive an offer, I save the papa’s favorite foods and profile details as text in my phone’s notes, so I’ll still have them even if the profile disappears.
I also update my notes after every date with information I learned through our conversations. That way, I can keep the conversation flowing during future dates.
I recommend doing this if you want to continue seeing someone on a monthly arrangement.
If you rely only on your brain’s memory, you’re bound to forget things when you’re dating multiple people（笑).
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I also look back at the messages until we’ve met two or three times, mainly to check her food preferences and allergies.
I’ll also review them when she asks what I think of her new photos after having them retaken.
I don’t think there’s anything strange about it.
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