If you were the opposite sex, could you date me or sleep with me?

> When did you start getting carried away? For me, I realized I was starting to get carried away when I began having more spending money in my wallet（笑） > In a world full of contradictions, what do you believe in? Probably the reality right in front of me...

I can’t answer that hypothetical, because I can’t even imagine myself having sex with me in the first place. I’m not quite sure what you mean by “getting carried away,” but as for me, back in my twenties, no woman ever turned me down when I asked her out. No one ever asked me to date them, though, so I was only at that level, haha. The first one or two times aren’t about using someone and discarding them—they’re about seeing whether you’re compatible. Even women will think, “He’s a nice guy,” but if things aren’t good in bed, they’ll break things off, right? If there’s a man who offers a better allowance, they’ll switch to him. That’s simply the kind of world meetings through dating clubs are.

I trust only myself and my own judgment. I do get things wrong sometimes, but when that happens, I reflect on where I was too naive and focus first on dealing with the immediate problem. I don’t think self-awareness has anything to do with kindness. Whether someone says they value you or not, they may still use you and move on. It’s naïve to think you can judge someone based on something like that.