Someone I recently met through a friend was on a list of people to avoid in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). His allowance was low and he seemed cold, so I’m not continuing, but my friend doesn’t seem to realize he’s on the list, so I’m unsure whether to tell her. Apparently, he pays her rent, though...
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Even if I tell her and she breaks things off with him, I can’t take responsibility for what happens. Should I tell her anyway?
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Are you saying that your female friend introduced her own papa (a male supporter) to the questioner and tried to share him?
If so, although he seemed cold to the questioner and offered a low allowance, things are going well with your friend—he even pays her rent, and she feels comfortable introducing him to a friend.
It sounds like he was simply a good match for your friend but not for you, so I don’t think it’s worth making an issue of.
I’m not really sure why you’re trying to bring it up. Are you upset that your friend is the only one receiving so much?
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If you say it outright and they break up, they may resent you and your friendship could fall apart. I think it’s best to casually look over that list together and subtly let them know.
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