Tips Mar 3, 2022 17:02

I was shocked to learn that my monthly-arrangement papa (a male supporter) had sex with another woman the day before seeing me. I noticed because there was lipstick on a towel.

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But he’s kind and fun to be around, so I didn’t want to ruin the mood and spent the time pretending not to know. Is it normal for male members to see multiple women? Also, for the women here, how do you emotionally handle it when you encounter a situation like this?
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It’s probably best to assume there are several. You should find yourself a primary boyfriend too.
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I feel like you’re worried about the wrong thing. At a dating club, it’s actually more common for both men and women to have multiple partners. What concerns me more is the possibility that the towel had lipstick marks on it—doesn’t that seem kind of unhygienic?
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It’s naïve to think that, just because you met someone through a dating club, you’re the only one they’re seeing. If you’re both seeing multiple people, that’s only fair. I don’t think there’s anything strange about it. That said, if you’re keeping it a secret, I do think it’s basic courtesy not to leave any signs of it.
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