I’m the person who asked about “being penetrated without protection, no questions asked…”
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I’m probably in the lowest Standard class, a B type, with only a handful of offers.
That’s how I was treated by those men.
I’m afraid of having an intimate relationship on the first date, so I only agree to it from the second date onward. But whenever we go to a hotel and become intimate, they do it without protection. Not once has anyone asked me whether that was okay. If I were a C type, I would become intimate from the first date, and I could report to the club that “he penetrated me without protection, and I wanted him to stop.” But from the second date onward, it’s considered a transactional relationship outside the club, so I can’t report it. It made me realize that this is what papa-katsu is like.
When I brought it up once, he gave me money to end things and said goodbye.
Since then, I’ve been too scared to say anything. I do receive my allowance, after all…
Fortunately, I’ve been using that money to visit a gynecologist every month.
Given my personality, even if I became pregnant with one of their children, I don’t think I could tell anyone—not my family, friends, or boyfriend. My boyfriend uses protection every time, and I haven’t told him that I do papa-katsu. If my gynecologist, whom I visit every month, told me I was pregnant, what would I do? My boyfriend uses protection, and if I took a DNA test, the truth would come out… I’ve been worried about this, so I decided to ask here.
Sorry for the long post.
I’d completely forgotten about sexually transmitted infections. I’ve had a cervical cancer screening, but I haven’t been tested for STIs, so I’m planning to get tested when I have the chance.
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“Is it okay without protection?”
What are you talking about? Of course not.
This conversation ends here.
Don’t go thinking, “So this is what papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is like.” Honestly, what were you thinking?
Marika
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You’re being far too self-deprecating. I think it’s okay for you to assert yourself more. If things stay as they are, you’ll only end up emotionally worn down, and that’s sad to see.
If you stand up for yourself and he leaves you, then so be it. Make your money through a regular day job. papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t your whole life.
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You’re only unable to say no because of the money, right?
In the first place, I’m not interested in dating women who have unprotected sex, so I wouldn’t want to approach someone like you.
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I’m sorry, but I can’t answer questions about reporting someone to the club because I’m not registered with Universe Club.
From the way you describe yourself—probably in the lowest Standard class, with only a handful of offers, and as a Type B—I get the impression that you may be very negative and have little confidence in yourself. You may seem obedient in a good way because you don’t resist even when something happens. But in a bad way, men may think they can get away with anything with you.
I think it would be best not to date a man like that—for your sake and for the club’s sake.
If you can’t do that, though, you need to learn how to firmly say no. You have to protect yourself to some extent, because no one else can always help you. If anything, you could even end up driving your boyfriend away.
Instead of thinking, “What if I get pregnant?” I think you should focus on what you can do to avoid pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.
I’m not a particularly strong person either, and I’m not really in a position to tell you what to do—I just happened to meet someone good. But please take care of yourself.
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That’s not what papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is like in general—the questioner is simply like that in their own papa-katsu experience.
I think people who can’t express their wishes appropriately will find it difficult to get through life, not just papa-katsu.
If you were pregnant but couldn’t even tell him, then I suppose your only option would be to have an abortion without saying anything.
That said, even on second and subsequent dates, I think you could at least report what happened. The club may listen to you, but I don’t think you can expect it to help resolve the specific issue. The same applies to dates after the initial dinner.
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