Why don’t men from dating clubs say things like “Are you okay? Does it hurt?” or take it slowly during penetration?
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When I have sex with guys my age (early 20s), they always check in to make sure it doesn’t hurt and take things really slowly.
But I’ve never met a single guy from a dating club who seems to care about that at all—lol.
It hurts so much every single time that I feel like I’m going to die.
Every last one of them is unbelievably bad at it, too.
I guess they can’t get dates because they don’t care about women, so they join dating clubs instead?
I think you just happened to run into an unpleasant man.
He probably wasn’t popular when he was younger and grew up watching porn, so he may think those extreme acts are normal.
There are plenty of wonderful men out there, so try waiting for another offer.
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It’s possible that your lack of attraction to older men is showing quite clearly during sex.
The reason I say that is, if you’re properly aroused during foreplay, penetration shouldn’t be painful unless he’s exceptionally large.
I’ve heard that having sex without any real feelings involved can make it harder to get wet. Please be careful.
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Is this what you’d call treating someone carelessly…?
I’m surprised there are people like that. You mean even with someone having an adult relationship for the first time, right?!
Maybe mention upfront that you don’t have much experience…
Since it’s a dating club, there may be people who think an adult relationship is a given and that all that matters is whether it happens…
But not everyone is like that. There are also kind people who genuinely care about you. I don’t think they join dating clubs simply because they can’t attract anyone.
Maybe they can see that kind of attitude beneath the surface, which is why they end up treating you as if you don’t matter.
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