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Feb 26, 2022 19:53
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I tend to gradually lose interest when I feel like the other person isn’t into me.
Even if it’s just an act, I’m happy when they show me they like me. How do you all feel?
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I’m also the type to lose interest instantly when I realize the other person doesn’t really like me or is treating me casually.
And when I like a papa (a male supporter), I make sure to show him I’m interested too, haha.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Even if it’s an act, it’s fine as long as you’re good enough that he doesn’t notice. But I think a lot of men would be put off if it’s obvious you’re acting.
P.S. Seattle, thank you for pointing that out. I didn’t notice because it was displayed on the administrator’s answer screen. I’ll ask whether it can be corrected.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Are you a man in your 20s? It’s hard to tell since the answerer profiles don’t show age or gender.
I can’t keep things going with someone who doesn’t make an effort to act like they’re into me. The ones I’ve been seeing for years are like that—more of the “pretend it’s real love” type.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t go out of my way to show that I like someone, but I wouldn’t sleep with them unless I felt some degree of affection.
I don’t pretend either, and if the other person puts on an act, it actually turns me off.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m also the type whose wallet loosens up when I feel that someone genuinely likes me.
That said, I can tell when someone is laying it on a little too thick, and I don’t think overdoing it is a good idea. You probably shouldn’t force the appeal too much either(笑).
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m instantly put off and lose interest when things feel too performative or over the top. Ideally, I’d like to keep things at the level of simply liking him as a papa (a male supporter).