Tips Feb 26, 2022 15:08

Doesn’t the question below sound like something an old man would ask?

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It sounds like they’re saying, “You’d better take the pill properly because I want to go bareback.” Like, “You’re getting paid, so the least you can do is let me enjoy it without protection.” I’d take the pill if I could, but it doesn’t agree with my body (I’m prone to blood clots, have persistent irregular bleeding, and am constantly plagued by headaches and nausea), so I can’t take it. Sometimes a papa (a male supporter) asks me, “Isn’t taking the pill a requirement?” and it honestly scares me a little. Are there really a lot of men who assume that PJ partners are supposed to take the pill?
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カズ
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I didn’t think he seemed like an old man. As I mentioned in my previous answer, it sounds like many women take it to ease menstrual problems, so I don’t think it’s something you can assume everyone takes.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s a shame you can’t take them. As for Fuu, I think it’s entirely up to each person whether they choose to take them or not. An ex-girlfriend of mine used to suffer from severe menstrual cramps and irregular periods, so we looked for a gynecologist together. She was prescribed the pill, and her symptoms improved dramatically. The pill can also help regulate periods and relieve menstrual pain. Of course, since you can’t take it, there’s nothing you can do—but in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), even using condoms doesn’t guarantee 100% protection. They can tear or have tiny holes, so if you can take the pill, I think it’s better to do so to reduce the risk. I recommend getting it properly prescribed by a doctor rather than buying cheap pills online.
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I didn’t think he seemed that old, though. But demanding that someone take the pill from the very first meeting just because he wants to go without protection is completely unacceptable. The older gentlemen need to be educated that the pill doesn’t protect against STIs…
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