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Feb 24, 2022 19:49
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
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One of the things I enjoy is “reading way too much into things” on my own. So let’s try reading too much into why young women do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). But don’t tell them your theories, or you’ll just come across as a seriously weird person.
“Things are tough at home, and you need to pay your own tuition and rent, right? But you also want to focus on your studies, so you don’t have time for a part-time job, and that’s why you’ve had no choice but to do papa-katsu, right? And now that you’ve met me, you’re truly grateful, right? Right?”
Honestly, I think what the questioner is saying is basically similar to this extreme example. Different people are here for all kinds of reasons. Even if those reasons don’t seem like a big deal to outsiders, they’re still perfectly valid reasons to that person.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
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This doesn’t really feel like a question so much as an attempt to get people to agree with you. Maybe you left it up because it got a lot of answers? (lol)
You’re lumping people around 20 together, but anyone 20 or older is legally an adult. Even if you’re referring to 18- and 19-year-olds:
Starting next April, the age of adulthood will be lowered to 18. Being legally an adult means you’re an adult in the eyes of the law.
It seems a little strange that the questioner is calling it “bad” when adults are making their own choices.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
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Understood.
I’ll make offers to women in their 20s, so please consider making offers to those in their 30s and 40s. They’ll appreciate it.
Age: Private
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I thought the person asking the question was the problem.
If they’re an adult, I don’t think it’s a problem.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think young women who call someone an “old man” are exactly blameless either, but I also don’t think most women in their teens or around their twenties who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are like that.
If you lump everyone together like that, you’re no different from the young women who call people “old men.”
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Then just don’t make offers to women like that.
Just like with groups such as the Sakamichi series, having all kinds of girls to choose from can help you figure out exactly what your preferences are.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
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What’s so wrong with women around 18 to 22 starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? Have you ever even tried to understand the difficult circumstances they’re dealing with?
Unlike women from our generation of middle-aged men, women today spend an incredible amount on their appearance. Medical hair removal alone can cost ¥500,000, and orthodontic treatment can easily set them back around ¥2 million. They also have to repay their student loans.
If you want to criticize them, then give every woman at least ¥10,000 per meeting. Use protection. Stop being so rough. Don’t give them Magikarp kisses with your foul-smelling mouth. Do something about that protruding belly. And please keep the dates on the shorter side. Then you can answer the question.
Throwing stones at young women from a distance is a truly despicable thing to do. The fact is, we’re middle-aged men—or even old men. Getting angry when someone points that out is ridiculous. Isn’t our only weapon as old guys the “composure” to laugh off young women’s harsh words with a “You’re so cute ♡”?
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I’m sure she’s only thinking about the money.