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Feb 15, 2022 23:39
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I’m very grateful to have been accepted, and I received around four offers on the day my profile was made public.
(I believe I’m probably Platinum or Black rank.)
However, it has now been three days since my profile was made public, and I haven’t received any further offers after the first day. I’ve seen questions from other female members saying that offers tend to be concentrated when you first join, but then stop coming afterward. Should I proactively send messages such as “You seem wonderful” from my side, or would it be better to register with other dating clubs at the same time?
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s true that newcomers tend to receive a lot of offers, but that doesn’t mean they’ll stop coming afterward.
Also, the “newcomer” phase lasts for a certain period, so try to be a little more patient and wait for things to settle down.
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I’m Taro.
I agree with Kazu—or rather, it wasn’t really an opinion; I got the same impression, probably, as Kazu did. It would be a shame for you to waste this opportunity. Try to calm down a little, look at your situation objectively, and act accordingly.
In web business terms, you’d call it PV and CVR. That probably doesn’t mean much to you, so to put it simply: if you ran a shop, the number of customers who bought something would be the number of visitors × the purchase rate, right? If your strategy for increasing buyers is to focus on the former—in other words, increasing the number of visitors—then the adult-entertainment industry would be more efficient. Depending on the person, an escort club offers far fewer opportunities overall; someone who gets a lot of offers there would be a top girl in the adult-entertainment industry. So the key is raising your purchase rate, or CVR. Put simply, value each encounter, enjoy the local catch instead of only going for the “premium” stuff, and make the most of every opportunity—even if the person you meet seems insignificant.
Once you’ve turned someone into a buyer, the next step is seeing whether you can turn them into a regular customer. And after that, it’s about maximizing your monthly revenue—in other words, the amount per meeting × frequency.
But that’s getting ahead of things. For now, I think the questioner needs to focus on taking that first step—or rather, on recognizing each step properly as they go. Once you can do that, you may find yourself moving forward smoothly. Maybe. Who knows.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
That opening sounds more like Yahoo Auctions or Mercari.
They’re called classes, not ranks.
You’re rushing things. I think you should focus on making the most of the four offers you already have. Did you join the dating club just to compete over the number of offers? I don’t think the number of offers is the main point.
From your question, you come across as someone who tends to panic on your own. Try to stay calm during the setup process and focus on turning those offers into fulfilling relationships.
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You’re jumping to conclusions way too quickly.
And why did you assume I was Platinum or Black?