Have you ever been surprised when a girl you like and are seeing shows you photos from girls’ nights...

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Have you ever been surprised when a girl you like and are seeing shows you photos from girls’ nights out or trips, and the friends pictured with her are far more attractive? I’ve had that happen many times. It makes me want to say, “Introduce me to them!” But I’m not bold enough to bring it up since I’m not Mac. It’s surprising how beautiful women seem to gather with other beautiful women, and it also makes me wonder whether they don’t feel the need to hide those potential rivals from their own papa.

フラグメーカー · Answer

How should I put this? Even lowlifes need manners. I’m fully aware that I’m a lowlife myself, but reading this, I couldn’t help thinking, “What a lowlife.”

Even lowlifes have their own hierarchy.

Fuu · Answer

If your friend isn’t doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), then she’s not really a rival, is she?

As the saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together,” so I can see why you’d think cute girls are more likely to be friends with other cute girls.

But be careful—if you say what you really think, you’ll probably be disliked.

Are you extremely looks-focused, by any chance?

Fuu cares about both appearance and personality. Even if a girl is pretty, I wouldn’t want an arrangement with someone whose personality doesn’t suit me.

I’ve already paid plenty in “tuition” here by making offers based on looks and having a rough time, so I have no desire to cheat on my current monthly arrangement partner（笑）

あや · Answer

Questioner, I kind of get the impression that you might be a naturally rude older guy… Just a feeling.

Do you really care that much about the subtle differences in women’s faces?

My papa doesn’t seem to fixate on details like “which one is prettier,” as much as you do. I get the sense that he chooses his partners based on both their looks and their personalities.

I think someone like that is more likely to build a deeper relationship with a girl—but maybe that’s not what you’re looking for in the first place.

前澤 · Answer

Usually, when someone tells me their friend is cute and shows me a photo, I end up thinking the woman they’re dating is actually cuter than the friend. It just keeps reminding me that men and women tend to notice different things.

Is the person the questioner is dating just unusual?

Or maybe he simply doesn’t have enough feelings for the woman he’s with...

カズ · Answer

I don’t have one.

I always think my partner is more attractive.

負け男 · Answer

No way.

Even if you told me to find women prettier than the top three at our club, I couldn’t do it.

Maybe only surgically enhanced beauties on TV could rival our aces.

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