I'm unsure which relationship type to choose.

Based on the details in your question, I think option B would be the best fit. Apparently, some unique gentlemen among the male members will call it “type fraud” if a woman categorized as Type C turns them down because the terms don’t work for her. That said, you should be fine if you explain your thoughts a little more clearly in your own comments. It may also help to explain your preferences to the staff during your interview. If they’re attentive, they may be able to introduce you in a way that matches what you’re looking for in your profile. I hope you find a great match.

I couldn’t quite figure out from my research whether a “setting” counts as the first date. Once Universe has facilitated communication and the man and woman meet, the setting is considered complete, so the setting itself counts as the first date. (This applies to a standard setting; letter dates are different.) > Am I correct in understanding that with option B, the setting day is dinner only, while with option C, an adult relationship may be possible after the setting, depending on how you feel? B is correct. C basically means you’ll have dinner, and if he invites you to pursue an adult relationship afterward, there’s about a 50% chance you’ll say yes. That said, some men deliberately ignore the fact that option D exists and assume that because you chose C, you’re automatically okay with an adult relationship. So be careful, as they may keep pressuring you even after you refuse. For reference, option D is intended for women who, as long as the allowance is the amount they want, generally won’t turn a man down based on his appearance unless it’s exceptionally bad. (Even then, apparently, if they try to turn him down after choosing C, he’ll keep asking, “Why? Why?”) If you’re unsure, choosing B is probably the safest option. However, if you want an allowance from the very first day because waiting until the second meeting would feel too late, then C may be the better choice. You can change it later, but since it will show that you changed your selection, it goes without saying that it’s better to choose carefully from the beginning.

Treat the setting as your first date. Most papas will invite you out for a dinner date. The common patterns are: B: You part ways after dinner. C: After dinner, if your terms match, you go to a private room together. If you want to decide whether to have an adult relationship by around the second date, I’d recommend choosing B. If you can decide on the first date, go with C. A good papa will explain his terms at the end of dinner. If he doesn’t, make sure you discuss and agree on the terms before having an adult relationship, so you won’t regret it later. Be sure to tell him that you require protection (a condom). Even with C, it’s perfectly fine to turn down an adult relationship if the allowance you want, the chemistry, or his cleanliness doesn’t feel right. Of course, the decision is up to you, but C will likely get you more offers than B.

I’m a B, but I do like H—as long as there’s genuine affection. If I like someone, I may even initiate. The first time you meet is your first date, so you may end up having H with someone you’ve just met that same day. Be sure to negotiate the allowance. Since many people try to do it without protection, make it clear during the negotiation that condoms are mandatory.

I understood that the first day we met after being set up was considered the first date. So, with B, the setup day is basically limited to dinner and similar activities, while with C, things may develop into an adult relationship depending on how you hit it off after having tea or a meal.