Why are there so few handsome men, even though there are plenty of cute women? I've dated over 100 older men, but only one or two had well-defined features and made me think they must have been handsome when they were younger.
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But when you walk around town, it seems like there are nothing but cute or beautiful women. Even clubs are packed with women who look like celebrities. Yet hosts are mostly unattractive. In fact, about 80% of the men next to the beautiful women walking around town are either young but unattractive or older, unattractive men.
Are handsome men really that rare?
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In a similar question in the past—which was really more of an opinion—the conclusion was that there are no good-looking papas. But I guess your theory is that there are no good-looking men in general, hosts included.
Somehow, that feels more refreshing than just seeing papas get singled out and criticized.
I wonder what happens once you’ve turned down more than 100 people. Does your judgment just start getting warped?
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I agree.
By the way, tonight was my last supper with C-chan. Her boyfriend, who’s been working away from home, is coming back this weekend, so we decided to talk things over and part ways.
We had dinner at a long-established mizutaki restaurant in Gion, then finished up at a bar converted from a tea ceremony practice room. But a bar with last call at 8:30 p.m.—is that some kind of punishment?
I put C-chan in a taxi home. Joe walked from Gion, past Gion-Shijo Station, through Sanjo, and all the way to Oike. Every woman I passed was beautiful, so I figured I wouldn’t feel lonely even without C-chan.
Tomorrow, I’m grabbing sushi in Nijo with a sexy lady. I’m looking forward to it.
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People of both genders feel that way toward the opposite sex, and the same goes for the same sex (I don’t look at people of my own sex and think they’re ugly, so I wouldn’t know).
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Ah! I used to be handsome too.
Have you ever had a long-term relationship—say, around three years—with one particular partner through a dating club? Once you’ve been seeing someone for about three years, they gradually start becoming “formerly handsome,” so try your best to make a long-term arrangement work.
As the relationship gets longer, you start casually saying things like, “You’re especially beautiful today,” or “You’re one to talk, Date—you used to be handsome too,” even though both the person saying it and the person hearing it are thinking, “Seriously?”（笑）
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Your standards for what counts as handsome are just pretty high.
There are quite a few guys who are fairly good-looking. My current papa is really handsome—he kind of looks like Mori-kun from SMAP. Though he still can’t beat my son.
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That's true. You might not believe me if I say it here, but my papa is handsome, so he was very popular with women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and the competition was intense. It was exhausting.
Maybe women also have the advantage of being able to hide flaws with makeup.
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I agree—I feel the same way.
It’s pretty rare to find a handsome guy.
But a man’s appeal isn’t just about his looks, and since I’m not into handsome guys anyway, it’s no problem for me.
Marika
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