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Feb 4, 2022 22:27
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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I usually give 10,000 yen on the second dinner date.
If she’s unhappy with that, I figure it simply means there won’t be a third date.
That said, if you have plenty of room in your allowance budget and really want to win her over, offering 20,000 yen or more could give you an edge over other men.
In that case, you should expect the cost of an adult relationship (intimate) to be around 60,000 yen or more.
Women who say from the outset that they expect 30,000–40,000 yen are pretty unlikely to want things to develop into an adult relationship.
Please approach it with the mindset that it would be lucky if things progress that far.
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
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Normally, you’d ask beforehand, “Is dinner-only okay?” I was taught that if there’s something difficult to bring up, you should ask about it in advance.
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Age: Private
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You do want to pursue an adult relationship (intimate) with this woman, right?
If so, giving her a large allowance for dinner only (no intimacy) could make it harder to move things toward an adult relationship.
That said, if you suddenly bring up paying just 10,000 yen on the day, she may be disappointed if she was expecting around 20,000 yen even for dinner.
I think it would be best to ask her directly in advance, something like:
“If it’s dinner only, would an allowance about the same as last time be okay?”
However, that alone might not convey your intentions, so you could also say something like:
“I’m prepared to offer more for an adult relationship. At least let me know what allowance you’d be hoping for when we go on our next date.”
Being too direct could backfire, so you might want to bring a little extra and decide after gauging her reaction when you meet, saying something like:
“Come to think of it, we haven’t decided on the allowance for today’s dinner date.”
That said, I recommend discussing it as early as possible rather than waiting until after dinner.
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It’s dinner only, right?
I’d suggest offering 1.
If she says here that she wants at least 3 even for dinner only, then you can reply, “I see. For an adult relationship (intimate), I would expect 5 or more.”
Also, pay attention to how considerate she is toward you during dinner, including her little gestures and manners. People are usually on their best behavior at first, so once some time passes, her true colors may start to show.
It also depends on how long you’re willing to continue with dinner only. If it looks like the dinner-only arrangement is going to drag on, make an offer to the next woman. Your time is valuable.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Option 1 should be fine, shouldn’t it?