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Feb 3, 2022 19:37
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I don’t think you should ask for an allowance before you’ve even met.
If your partner is thoughtful enough to send you something via PayPay or a similar service, be extremely grateful, because people that considerate are rare.
Also, even if he says he has Omicron, he may still be meeting his favorite girl, so I think you should look for someone new.
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If it looks like it could turn into a monthly arrangement, I’d probably make more of an effort to reply.
One of my papas became a monthly supporter after we couldn’t meet for two months during the first wave of COVID.
Sending money when you can’t meet takes quite a bit of trust and courage. But if you’ve built a solid relationship, it’s not impossible. Depending on how much effort you put in, the person asking might even become a generous (well-paying) papa.
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In my case, if there’s a woman I want to stay connected with or keep in touch with, I send her an allowance even if she doesn’t ask for it.
But if a man wants to keep in touch yet never sends an allowance, I feel like he’d probably get annoyed if I asked.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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If it’s the papa—not the woman—who can’t meet because of Omicron, then it’s clearly on the papa’s side. It’s just an excuse, right?
And with that habit of sending you LINE messages and photos, that papa is definitely Mr. Five. Poor thing...
If a woman tells me she wants to meet, I’ll meet her whether it’s Delta or Omicron. Omicron in particular is nothing more than a cold virus to someone like me, who lives a disciplined lifestyle and keeps in shape, so I’m not worried about it at all.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
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If it were a PJ I was really close to, I’d send her the money even if we couldn’t meet.
If we weren’t that close, though, this might be a good opportunity to call it quits.
Which one is it, I wonder?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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If it’s not a monthly arrangement, I’m out.
But I’m also put off by papas who want to text on LINE or call all the time.
So basically, I think you and your papa are two of a kind.