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Feb 3, 2022 19:08
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The first or second time you meet is usually the peak, right?
9 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I think we’re closer now than when we first met, too. We’re coming up on four years together.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It can happen.
With my monthly arrangements, I’ve been seeing some for five years, others for two years or one year, and each time we meet, we grow closer.
茉莉花
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Other
It’s been a year with my beloved papa (a male supporter), and I love him more than ever. We’re very close.
Marika
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
People I’ve been seeing for two or three years don’t change at all.
The person I’d been seeing for seven years—I haven’t met them much lately.
The ones who end things quickly are people who never share any personal information and only make small talk. They’re just not interesting to talk to.
あや
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Other
That’s not necessarily true. Still, I’m sure there are papas (male supporters) and papa-katsu women whose relationships end that way. It’s a shame.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
What? That’s surprising.
Normally, the more often you meet someone—the second time rather than the first, and the third time rather than the second—the closer you become.
Of course, becoming closer can sometimes lead to arguments. But that doesn’t mean you were closer on the first meeting. It simply means that, because you’ve grown closer, you’re able to speak more honestly, which can sometimes result in a disagreement.
So I don’t think it’s accurate to say you’re closer on the first meeting.
綾瀬なな
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Other
Wait, wouldn’t we gradually get to know each other better if we met once a week for about three months? Are you okay?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It sounds like you’ve never really made a friend before.
Usually, people grow closer by seeing each other repeatedly.
As for sex, women also seem to enjoy it more after they’ve done it a few times than they do the first time.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I guess there are people like that, too.
In my experience, I’ve never felt like I’d really bonded with someone after just one or two meetings.