Tips Feb 3, 2022 16:42

More like love calls—or maybe just repeated requests for money—but either way, I’m constantly being invited on dates by PJ women and simply can’t keep up with responding to them all.

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Is it normal for women to be this proactive in a dating club? It’s the exact opposite of what I expected, so I’m unsure how much I should respond to. I’d rather keep things quiet until Omicron dies down.
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 50s 👑 Not stated
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m getting absolutely no messages. I’m beyond “pien”—I’m completely devastated. Don’t worry. If you just leave them alone, the messages will gradually taper off, and you’ll be able to enjoy some peace and quiet. They’ll move on to another papa (a male supporter).
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綾瀬なな
綾瀬なな ?
Other
Wow, that’s impressive. Are you bragging about your relationship? Get in touch once the pandemic has died down. If you leave me hanging, I’ll turn into a vengeful spirit.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Just quit using LINE. I had to stop using LINE for personal reasons, and while it was inconvenient at first, the number of invitations from my monthly arrangements dropped dramatically compared with when I was using it. With email, you can’t really send a one-line message like, “I want to see you♡,” can you? Psychologically speaking, it feels harder. And since you can’t use emojis either, I think my monthly partners find it much more difficult to contact me, which also raises the hurdle for inviting me out. I have 11 monthly arrangements, so quitting LINE was absolutely the right decision. You should try giving up LINE too♪
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あや
あや ?
Other
I think it’s because you handle things so well. That’s a nice problem to have, isn’t it?
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
There are very few people who are financially independent to begin with, like mistresses in dramas. I’m struggling financially—the credit card payments are killing me.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
In most cases, women join dating clubs because they want an allowance, so you’ll likely receive invitations. That said, the frequency depends on each woman, as well as the kinds of offers men tend to make. If you want to keep things quiet until Omicron dies down while maintaining your connection with her, you could give her an allowance even during periods when you don’t meet.
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